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As a person who grew up reading books with elves, vampires, wizards, and scantily clad ladies on the cover, I am well versed in book shame. I read voraciously and well above my level as a child, according to whatever arcane and mysterious forces that decide such things as reading levels. You would think that would be enough to make adults happy, but it never was, for some. Sure, I read, but I wasn’t reading the “right sort” of books. The funny fact was that the “right sort” differed wildly depending on the person doing the judging. I feel like all of you out there in Whimsy Land have probably found yourselves on the receiving end of this sentence:

“Sure, you read, but _____ isn’t real literature.”

Because here’s the thing—that blank? Sometimes it was filled with sci-fi, and sometimes fantasy, mystery, romance, graphic novels, young adult, middle grade… basically, every kind of book I actually liked. And that derision? It just made me dig in my heels harder and read whatever book I damn well pleased. The lovely bonus to the situation is that I now don’t have any shame at all when it comes to reading. If I want to eat my lunch and read a book with, say, a sexy vampire on the cover, I will hold the cover up for all to see as I aggressively make eye contact with all around me while eating my sandwich in a dainty fashion, because I am a lady.

While shame ceased to shape my reading choices, it left a cozy warm spot open for spite, and it turns out I am totally comfortable with spite reading. Once I graduated from college, I pretty much refused to read anything from the “literature” section out of spite. Here’s the thing, though, that whole breakdown of genres? It’s often pretty subjective. For example, the bookstore I work in puts Frankenstein in horror. Some bookstores would put it in fiction or classics. It depends on the staff and the store. I’ve worked in several bookstores—I know this. Yet my personal bias remained, even though I am a huge fan of reading what you want and outside your comfort zones. Or, as Gene Luen Yang, the current National Ambassador for Young People’s Literature puts it, you should read without walls. Otherwise, you’re just missing out on cool books that you might actually like.

So as you might have guessed, this post is going to focus on books that don’t fall into our normal genre columns. I know—I’m scared, too. It’s going to be okay—I promise these books are still weird and funny and great, because why else would I read them?

 

Jasper Fforde’s Thursday Next Series

So really, you could grab any of Jasper Fforde’s books and expect silly weirdness. It’s what he does best. I picked the Thursday Next series because it’s what he’s most known for and because it contains a lot of reader catnip. Why? Because the Thursday Next books feature a character, Thursday, who is a literary detective. The first book, The Eyre Affair, features a drag racing Miss Havisham, time travel, and a dodo named Pickwick. I mean, literary references abound. (I particularly like the running joke about her dad and Winston Churchill.) Feeling more like a Young Adult book? Then start with The Last Dragonslayer, which has plucky orphans, quark beasts, and wizards using magic to unclog drains.

 

Christopher Moore’s Bloodsucking Fiends

So again, you could really pick up any book by Moore and expect weird, silly, and occasionally (delightfully) vulgar stories. A lot of my friends loved Lamb: the Gospel According to Biff, Christ’s Childhood Pal. You could start with his first book, Practical Demonkeeping, which will introduce you to Pine Cove, a town Moore sets several stories in. For me, it’s a toss up between Coyote Blue and Bloodsucking Fiends: A Love Story, which involves a chapter that is three sentences long and illustrates how spot on Moore’s comedic timing can be. Also, there’s turkey bowling, vampires, and two dogs named Bummer and Lazarus.

 

Jeannine Hall Gailey’s Field Guide to the End of the WorldDaily Schedule 

Okay, so I read distressingly little poetry. My friend, Abby Murray, who has a PhD in the stuff and happens to get my jaded sense of humor, is generally my go-to source for new poetry. She handed me Gailey’s book saying, “It’s Sci-Fi feminist poetry. I think you’ll like it.” She was absolutely spot-on with this one, because not only is the poetry right up my alley, it’s funny. The poem’s topics vary from teen vampires to zombies to snippets from cultural icons. Social commentary, humor, pop culture, and delightful imagery come together to create a really enjoyable poetry collection. In the poem “Martha Stewart’s Guide to the End Times,” we’re told “Now’s the time to get out your hurricane lamps! They create a lovely glow in these last days.” I can hear Marta Stewart’s voice as I read it and I laugh, even though deep down I’m unsettled about how close to now some of the poems actually feel.

 

Molly Harper’s Half-Moon Hollow and Naked Werewolf Series

Remember what I said about no shame? I’d like to double down on that for books that fall into the romance category. If you don’t want to read it, that’s fine, but let’s not shame those that do…because honestly? On average romance readers read more than anyone else. They are voracious. Romance outsells all other genres. It’s a fact. They have a robust and enthusiastic readership, and yet they get shamed more than any other readership, which is why I’m including a romance series in this literary lineup even though it’s technically also genre fiction, as well. So now that we have that out of the way, let’s get to the second reason—Molly Harper is really, really funny. Like, choke-on-my-food and ugly laugh kind of funny. Her Half-Moon Hollow series follows a librarian, Jane, who gets turned into a vampire after she gets mistaken for a deer and shot on the side of the road. Her family has a hard time with her new “life choice” and her mom keeps trying to cure her vampirism with casseroles. Her werewolf series starts with female lead, Mo, escaping to Alaska to start a new life far from her very loving, but very overwhelming hippie parents. (Her mother keeps breaking into her house and exchanging her food with healthy, unprocessed foods, for example.) Harper excels at snappy banter, comedic situations, and creating funny and supportive friend groups that act as found families for the characters.

 

How about you out there in whimsy land? Any non-genre whimsy you’d like to share? (Or let’s face it, any funny titles at all. Who doesn’t love finding a new author to read?)

Originally published in August 2017.

Pyromantic Lish McBrideLish McBride currently resides in Seattle, spending most of her time at her day job at Third Place Books in Lake Forest Park. The rest of her time is divided between writing, reading, and Twitter, where she either discusses her desire for a nap or her love for kittens. (Occasionally ponies.) Her debut novel, Hold Me Closer, Necromancer was named an American Library Association Best Book for Young Adults and was a finalist for the YALSA William C. Morris Award. Her other works include Necromancing the Stone, Firebug, and Pyromantic.

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Lish McBride

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Lish McBride is a writer, former bookseller, and amateur goblin living in the PNW. In the crime of the century, she tricked not one but two universities into giving her degrees, ending up with an MFA from the University of New Orleans. (They cannot have it back, either, as she has invoked the ancient law of “no backsies.”) Her ultimate dream is to have her own castle and one of the libraries with the wheely ladder. You can find her online in all of the usual places under the handle @lishmcbride, usually posting pictures of her dogs.
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AlanBrown
5 years ago

I had a wonderful role model in my father, who never cared what people saw him reading. I did, however, put paper bag bookcovers on some books when I read them at school, to prevent teachers from questioning my choices.

robertstadler
5 years ago

This calls to mind a funny incident involving Jasper Fforde and book-shaming.  Before the more famous book with a similar name came out, Fforde wrote a book called “Shades of Grey” (set in a post-apocalyptic world in which social class depends on color-sensitivity).  Patrick Rothfuss, as a stunt (and because it’s actually a good book), bought 50 copies of the book and wrote a blog post titled “Wherein I Start Reading Fifty (50) Shades of Grey.”

In the comments section on the blog post, someone who hadn’t read past the title denounced Rothfuss for promoting such a piece of trash and said he would never read anything by Rothfuss again.

I’m not sure exactly what the moral of this story is.

Skallagrimsen
5 years ago

There’s no level of pulp too low to make me feel self conscious about reading it in public. But there is literature too hoity toity. Reading Nietzsche, Proust or Camus in a public cafe (remember those?) seems horribly pretentious.   

MByerly
5 years ago

I wrote romance, the lightning rod of reader contempt.  After one of these people spewed hate for a bit, I’d raise my eyebrow Spock-style and say something like “When I was working on my doctorate in literature at Duke.”  Then I’d pulverize them and their so-called literary purity into pulp.  Good times.  

My infamous “Why Don’t You Write a Real Book” is at several sites online if anyone needs ammunition.

I just finished Christopher Moore’s newest book, SHAKESPEARE FOR SQUIRRELS, a mixture of a detective novel and “A Midsummer Night’s Dream.”  The detective is Pocket, King Lear’s Court Jester.  Not that much detecting, but lots of vulgar humor and silliness about the Shakespeare play.  Fun.

Msb
Msb
5 years ago

Thanks for the Thursday Next shoutout. I love those books. 

Another voracious reader here. I started with the delusion that everything printed was literature, but learned to identify trash, no matter where I found it. I’ve faced some people saying that SFF is trash, but told them that their snobbery was hindering their access to some great books. Literature snobs should try to remember that novels were once regarded as trash by self-appointed defenders of culture; Jane Austen stops in the middle of Northanger Abbey to defend novels, for example. 

griff
griff
5 years ago

Even better than Fforde’s ‘Thursday Next’ series are his recent stand alone novels ‘Early Riser’ and ‘The Constant Rabbit’. 

These take whimsy to the next level: they are about loyalty, betrayal, political satire and I don’t know what else.

In ‘Early Riser’ there’s a legendary monster which disappears you and leaves your clothes neatly folded in the snow…

Fry08
5 years ago

When I was in high school, I would devour any Jasper Fforde book that came out. I still love the early books of the Thursday Next series, thought I can’t say I thought much of the later books. This post has reminded me just how long it’s been since I read Fforde. He’s got several new books out that I haven’t even bought! He acted as a gateway to Terry Pratchett for me.

I have nothing else to add except this silly anecdote: my mom once checked out several Anne Rice books based on a recommendation from a friend. She was so embarrassed by them that she carried them in a brown paper bag and returned them through the library drop box at night.

Tehanu
Tehanu
5 years ago

It’s been a while since I read Bloodsucking Fiends and I really ought to reread all my Christopher Moore books. Of course, Bummer and Lazarus were the Emperor Norton’s dogs and they also appear, with the Emperor, in Barbara Hambly’s Ishmael, which is a fantastic mashup of Star Trek and Here Come the Brides and a good historical novel to boot.

David Bowman
David Bowman
5 years ago

The Nymphos of Rocky Flats by Mario Acevedo

LKBurwell
5 years ago

Book shame? Never had it. In fact, there is very little that I *won’t* read, although there are only a handful of romance writers that I read (I’m asexual and aromantic, so there needs to be something special to get me reading romance), and westerns do nothing for me.

Mind you, my parents would buy me any kind of book, and once I outgrew Nancy Drew and the like, it was my mother who gave me authors like Anne McCaffrey to read. She read SF and mysteries, and had no book shame of her own.

Currently, I am reading an SF novel (Six Wakes), a mystery novel (Death in the Family), I’m about to start a non-fiction (The Next Pandemic) and a book of poetry (Great Goddesses by Nikita Gill). If it’s words on the page, I’ll read it. And I was lucky as a kid to be encouraged to read whatever I want by parents and teachers alike.

Fernhunter
5 years ago

In the early 70’s, in the Bay Area, a friend got a job at a book shop. The place was empty, so she read her own book. The boss came by and talked to the local manager. Then he asked this new employee, “What are you reading?” She held up the book. It had one of those covers. Say, a man in a space suit, a fire breathing dragon, and a Mississippi riverboat.

The boss told the manager, “Better keep her at the Berkley store.”

escaaape
5 years ago

. MByerly – I loved “Why don’t you write a real book”, thank you for pointing me to it!

Reminded me of this epic thread on Courtney Milan’s Twitter. Someone told her that she’s not a lawyer and insulted romance novels too. The replies are glorious. 

https://twitter.com/Jj_nyappdefense/status/1282493893783756800?s=20

Fernhunter
5 years ago

Time Enough at Last

This London bookshop was photographed in 1940.

In between air raids.

During the Blitz.

Close enough.

Paul Cypert
Paul Cypert
5 years ago

As a kid I was wired a bit differently. I hated the overly religious town I grew up in. Kids would try to show off by bringing their study bibles to school…so I bought a large, leather bound copy of Hitchicker’s Guide to the Galaxy complete with satin page holding strip. Quite a few asked about my bible translation, only to see what it really was LOL. I was always choosing things that would shock or offend when out and about after that :D

wingracer
5 years ago

@14. Paul Cyper

 

That’s funny. The problem is for me and my schools in my time, Hitchhikers is about the only thing that would be considered cool to read. My thing back then was military fiction. You know, the Tom Clancy’s of the world.

mathbard
5 years ago

Regarding genre and it being based on whoever’s bias: I have a non-book related anecdote. Back when Blockbuster was still a thing, I wanted to watch West Side Story. I was able to find it at my local Blockbuster, shelved with the comedies of all places. Turned out whoever decided which genre movies were placed in had decided that all musicals were comedies, no matter what the actual story was.

princessroxana
5 years ago

@55, Msb, but Miss Austen spends the totality of Northhanger Abbey showing how indiscriminate reading of Gothic novels can rot the brain. 

Kikishua
Kikishua
5 years ago

 “Once I graduated from college, I pretty much refused to read anything from the “literature” section out of spite.”

ME TOO!  I studied English Literature and I was SO over anything “worthy”.