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Let Them Eat Tropes: Why Romantasy Needs to Grow Beyond Trends

When does a genre literary trope cross the threshold into marketing trend?

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Published on March 5, 2025

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My friend is considering a writing project about women in multiverses. Because my primary function is book recommendations and everything else about me is ancillary to that, I’ve been messaging them book titles any time it occurs to me—Diana Wynne Jones’s Charmed Life; Micaiah Johnson’s The Space Between Worlds; Joanna Russ’s The Female Man; Aimee Pokwatka’s Self-Portrait with Nothing (spoilers, sorry); and Mirror in the Sky, by Aditi Khorana.

I’ve been enjoying this partly because fulfilling my primary function allows me to experience a sense of self-worth but also because I’ve been struck by how wildly, thrillingly different these books are. Those authors aren’t writing to some pre-established idea of what a “women traveling the multiverse” story is supposed to look like. They’re writing the weird, specific, personal stuff that they need to write, and it happens that a commonality exists among them: women! Traveling the multiverse! It’s notably a commonality, and not the kind of trope that’s managed to harden into a trend, much less the sort of trend that’s so hot right now.

One cannot be an SFF romance reviewer in 2025 without having trope thoughts. In the last few years, we’ve seen more authors and publishers using tropes as a marketing tool, which seems to have begun as a meme (describe your book using AO3-style tags!) before catching on like algorithmic wildfire. Your book isn’t its actual plot anymore; it’s Slow Burn Enemies to Lovers with Dragons. It’s been especially prominent in romance and—to a lesser extent—SFF spaces, I suspect because a lot of currently working professional writers in those spaces came up on fanfiction. The trend has gotten so intense that when I was googling around looking for other folks who’ve written about this evolution, every search result was advice on how to use tropes to market your book.

The sweet spot for a trope—for me—is somewhere in between the moment when it gets a catchy name, and the moment when it abruptly slams into oversaturation. Like “sword lesbian.” That is a good trope with a good name, and it is bang in the sweet spot of its lifecycle right now. I don’t have enough sword lesbian books in my life! In order to add more sword lesbian books into my life, I need to have a name for the thing I’m asking for, so that other people can give it to me. Right now, as I write this, I am hoping that some of you will drop into the comments with your sword lesbian romance recs. That is what tropes can do for us. Thanks, tropes.

At some point in the lifecycle, though, you stop getting books written by authors whose dream has always been to write this one sword lesbian book, acquired by editors who thought what they were doing was really neat. Instead you get books where the main thing they have going for them is “sword lesbian” and everything else—writing style, plot and character development—is kinda beside the point, because the point was to hit the trend while it’s hot.

I’ve come to believe that this oversaturation can’t not happen, once a trope becomes a trend. And we’re certainly seeing it in the SFF romance space, particularly among pro-pubbed books that are being marketed as romantasy. Everyone wants to replicate the success of Fourth Wing, and the only three tools in their arsenals are tropes, smut, and sprayed edges. At worst, we end up in the grimly dystopic world of Red Tower Books, as described in Katy Waldman’s recent article about a lawsuit between two romantasy authors, where books are conceived from the jump as products for TikTok, then created collaboratively by author and editor to meet the marketing needs of the publisher. I admit this lawsuit feels irresistibly similar to that influencer lawsuit where the one beige influencer is mad that the other beige influencer is hawking all the same beige-ass products as her. The trend is beige. They’re both doing the trend. How could it possibly be argued that one of them is plagiarizing the other one?

Contributing to this relentless sameness is the way these tropes can calcify into prescription—not just the presence of the tropes on which the whole book hangs, but the way you get recurring trope clusters that are understood to all go together. I can’t throw a rock in a bookstore these days without hitting five sprayed-edged romantasies where the girl has to reluctantly team up with a dangerous, sexy enemy in order to save her family / reclaim her throne / overthrow the oppressive ruling class. Fine, I don’t have any objection to a girl getting it on with her dark and deadly enemy. (Au contraire!) But it becomes immensely tedious when every book starts hitting the same exact beats, with slightly different set dressing. She’s different from the rest; she fears she’s worthless and unlovable; she has a slightly boring best guy friend who she’s going to be very surprised to find out is in love with her. The dark and dangerous enemy appears to hate her but that’s just his way of hiding how much he wants to bone and marry her; he’s the only one who sees how special she is; she’s his moral polestar; if it’s a trilogy, he’ll betray her at the end of book one so they can have angry sex in book two and makeup sex in book three.

I’m reading these books because I am dedicated to my beat, but my God, it’s been a lot of beige.

Make no mistake, I love to read tropily. I wouldn’t be a romance reader if I didn’t. It’s brilliant to be an experienced enough genre reader to appreciate when the author’s doing a specific trope a specific way because they know what the trope is, and you know what the trope is, and you’re both having some fun with it. There’s a particular weirdness to it when the hot new trend is something you liked in the first place. What if tropes, but too much? Part of me feels like I willed these cookie-cutter romantasy novels into existence by writing this column while liking romance tropes, and now the universe is standing over me like Miss Trunchbull force-feeding an entire chocolate cake to poor hapless Bruce Bogtrotter. I don’t want the whole cake! I wanted a single slice as part of this complete breakfast! Man shall not live by chocolate cake alone!

The solution to all this lies in understanding why tropes felt good to us in the first place. Porting them straight over from fanfiction ignores what made them work in fanfiction—our preexisting love for the characters the tropes are happening to. When a trope befalls a character I don’t care about, it’s like holding a blank slate up to a mirror to see a second blank slate reflected back at me. When we ask tropes to carry the full weight of the book they appear in, we de-incentivize the deep work of building meaningful characters, textured worlds, and emotionally honest relationships. Enemies to Lovers is marketing copy, but the book has to be more. The book is the process of making me care why these two exact, specific people in this exact, specific circumstance changed their minds about each other; what qualities in each other made them feel curiosity, attraction, and respect. The tropes, ultimately, are window dressing. It’s the characters that matter. icon-paragraph-end

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Jenny Hamilton reads the end before she reads the middle. She reviews for Strange Horizons and Booklist, and she can be found at her website, on BlueSky grudgingly, and occasionally still on the dying shores of Twitter.
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AJBeingCreative
1 month ago

“the way you get recurring trope clusters that are understood to all go together”. This is the problem for me. I love fantasy. I love romance. I love a fantasy novel with a romantic storyline, or a romantic novel in a fantasy setting. I should be all over romantasy. This should be the best time of my reader life. But I don’t like the dominant trope cluster you described, of the girl who feels different and her dark angsty enemy-to-lover. In fact, I can’t stand it. I don’t begrudge other readers what they enjoy, but I wish the trope cluster they enjoy didn’t have the genre in a complete stranglehold. Give me those sword lesbians. Give me non-binary necromancers. Heck, give me dragons, but separated from the M/F enemies-to-lovers pairing.

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1 month ago

Thiiiiissss, all of it.

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Me.
1 month ago

I thoroughly enjoy a good romance, but I have definite tastes in what I like, and I don’t enjoy teenaged angst, or books where the romantic interest is a jerk to the protagonist for 2/3 of the book, then it turns out he has a tragic backstory and limited emotional expression and this is how he shows love so it’s okay. I want to explain to the protagonist that there is a world of people out there, and she can look for someone who isn’t her bland best friend who is trying to friend-zone his way into a relationship and a sulky jerk who is sexy but treats her badly, and that romantically imprinting on someone in your teens does not mean you’re fated to be together.

Give me romances about mature adults with a variety of life experiences who learn to trust each other, fall in love intellectually as much as physically, love each other *for* their personal weirdnesses, and are fundamentally decent but sometimes flawed people. Any gender pairing.

It also takes a lot of skill to write a book that that does genre fantasy (or genre SF) well and does genre romance (or mystery) well – I enjoyed Ada Palmer and Jo Walton’s discussion of this in their podcast, Ex Urbe Ad Astra. So you’ve got a lot of good fantasy books that have a romance plot (but aren’t a genre romance), and a lot of romance books that take place in a fantasy setting (but aren’t strong genre fantasy), and I suspect enjoyment depends a lot on whether your approaching them as a fantasy reader or a romance reader.

Also, I really, really, really hate when they cram all the trope tags in the title of ebooks. “My Romance, a slow burn enemies to lovers why choose college dark fae romance (Genre Romance Series book 3), for fans of Harry Potter and Twilight, as seen on Tik-Tok”. I know there are algorithm reasons for that, that could likely be solved by a better tagging system on Amazon, but it’s still obnoxious.

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1 month ago
Reply to  Me.

And that “for fans of” means that when I search the library site by an author’s name, I get whatever books have mention that author. Ugh!

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1 month ago
Reply to  Me.

I’m not that into romance centric books but, like you, those that I enjoy have mature characters. I have no desire to relive my hormonal years.

For a mature sword lesbian tale, devoid of most romantasy tropes, try Rebecca Thorne’s Can’t Spell Treason Without Tea.

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E. Jamieson
1 month ago

Just so you know, the Katy Waldman link doesn’t seem to be working!

And I’ll admit I’m biased because I’ve never enjoyed romance, (and have never really been into the fanfiction side of things!) but…from that outsider perspective, all of these tropes have been beige from the beginning. That’s a perfect word to describe it. I feel like relying on tropes rather than pushing for originality, wherever possible, is leeching the color out of what should be excellent books. But of course ymmv.

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Barbara Schwartz
1 month ago

Please send your friend a link to Marge Piercy’s “Woman on the Edge of Time.” It’s less multiverse than alternate timeline, but the protagonist is heroic in all timelines.

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1 month ago

A Sword Lesbian Book:
Black Blade Blues by J.A. Pitts

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Kat
1 month ago

For sword lesbians, have you read The Warden by Daniel M. Ford? Prickly sword and sorcery bisexual in a DnD flavored pulp fantasy setting. Honorable mention to the Unspoken Name by AK Larkwood, but I bet you’ve already read that.

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Jean Lamb
1 month ago
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Just give me Gideon the Ninth when it comes to Sword Lesbians. Harrowhawk, ‘your arms are noodles’ <G>.

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1 month ago

I don’t know if this is still a thing but more than a decade ago, when I read for the mystery guild, I got a surprisingly number of mysteries that shared these features:

Woman lead, whoWas widowed or divorced, whoLeft their big city career forA small town, whereThey found work in some small-scale commercial venture, andFound a new, better love interest, andAdopted or fostered a kid, andSolved murders on the side.What fascinated me (beyond the apparent checklist) was how many changes could be rung on that formula. I didn’t have any trouble keeping the various series straight [1], whereas I once got confused over which Space Lizards Mean Genocide Is OK series I was reviewing.

If you play TTRPGs, Evil Hat’s Thirst Sword Lesbians may be of interest.

1: Speaking of straight, the leads always were. So, there’s an untapped variation.

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stclements
1 month ago

Incredible article, I really love the mirror metaphor! I don’t read the popular romantasy books, but a favorite pastime of mine is listening to people rant review them on YouTube.

Some of my favorite sword lesbian books (ALWAYS looking for more):
-The Unspoken Name duology
-The Silk and Steel anthology
-Lady Hotspur by Tessa Gratton
-Spear by Nicola Griffith
-Elemental Logic series by Laurie J. Marks (the gold standard, although Zanja na’Tarwein is more of a knife lesbian)

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1 month ago
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Jessica Amanda Salmonsen’s Tomoe Gozen and other works!

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Eugene R
1 month ago

And if anyone gets tired of the published fiction, we can make up our own characters and put them into any desired trope with the aid of the TTRPG Thirsty Sword Lesbians by April Kit Walsh (Evil Hat Productions), which won the 2021 Nebula for Best Game Writing.

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Creads
1 month ago

Love your writing!

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Jac
1 month ago

You perfectly summarized the current romantasy book I’m reading. And why are the female leads so often brilliant thieves??

Sword lesbian rec: Gideon the Ninth!

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Doug
1 month ago

No sword lesbians that I remember, but speaking of tropey wives, have you read Tooth and Claw by Jo Walton? It isn’t three volumes, but otherwise it’s a very Victorian romance: country gentry, suitable marriages, romances that cut across barriers, parsons, picnics, drawn-out lawsuits over inheritances and much more that one would expect.

What one might not expect, perhaps, is that all of the characters are dragons. Cannibalistic dragons.

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DragonLukim
1 month ago
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Jo Walton is always a win!

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Doug
1 month ago
Reply to  DragonLukim

Truly!

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ASFerguson
1 month ago

Not a book, but the anime Revolutionary Girl Utena is foundational sword lesbian text and I think it’s worth the watch. Major trigger warnings for basically everything though, and it’s very weird and absurd.

As for tropes, I feel even in fanfiction things are way too focused on tropes and tags. I never really care about them except to avoid things I don’t like. I think it’s one thing to try to summarize what you’ve written to find people interested in it, but I don’t really enjoy the shallow approach to a lot of the things people are trying to showcase. The Revolutionary fantasies aren’t really offering new or unique insight into politics or upheaval. Some feminist retellings of old stories seem to lack any root in feminist theories. It doesn’t feel right to boil these themes down to tropes.

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Akua
1 month ago

An education and an elucidation! Thanks for teasing these intertwinements apart and letting light shine through.

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Nicole
1 month ago

Thank you! I think you’ve really hit the nail on the head with what can be good and bad about the current romantasy trend. I always know when I’m rolling my eyes reading a book, it’s time to read something completely different, and I can barely pick up any (hetero!) romantasy without it happening nowadays. I’m feeling jaded and bored of tropes that used to feel so exciting and fun.

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Carrie Vaughn
1 month ago

Urban Fantasy circa 2008. This has happened before, this will happen again.

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Jo P
1 month ago
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I remember when I read nothing but urban fantasy for years on end. One day I felt like I just couldn’t read any more. I was oversaturated to the point of hating the genre I had loved for so long.

Currently I’m on space operas (preferably sapphic or queer or some kind). I really, really, really hope I don’t get tired of that genre the same way I did urban fantasy.

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Karth
1 month ago

Thank you for putting what I’ve been thinking into words. I enjoy stories where characters learn to love each other in the process of living the story (shout out to T. Kingfisher’s World of the White Rat series (I almost said Paladin series, but it appears that paladins, at least in name, are becoming a trope too)). I can hardly bear to read Reactor’s roundups of new YA books for all the manifestations of uniquely powerful main character meets irritating but alluring antagonist.

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rainey
1 month ago

sword lesbian book rec, except it’s also archery lesbian because it’s about robin hood’s granddaughter: not for the faint of heart by lex croucher!

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Rari
1 month ago

Sword Lesbian rec: The Crane Moon Cycle. It’s much much more than sword lesbians, and I adore the character work!

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All I can say is that it’s getting harder to find a book description that excites me anymore. All cozy mysteries sound/are the same (I dropped those some time ago). All romantasy is the same just with different creatures or whatever. Even a lot of straightforward mysteries sound alike. And, of course, if we show an interest in one book, we get funnelled to more of the same. I ignore “for fans of” anyway.

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LiterallyLoriB
1 month ago

Yes, all of this. I miss the days when I started a new book and was truly shocked by the story. Man…what a time to be alive. And the way I cringe when I see another sprayed edge. I am shocked at how quickly it lost its appeal for me Urgh…

I wonder what the next big trend will be. Oh…I have an idea: how about see-through dust jackets? Bring back pop-up books? Glow-in-the-dark ink? The anticipation.

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Triaxx2
1 month ago
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Given the Genre, Pop-up books might not be the best idea…

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1 month ago

How about a retired sword lesbian who also happens to be an orc? Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree…Viv rules!!!

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savingewoks
1 month ago

I don’t understand how we don’t have 10,000 fancy editions of the original Pern books (or at least one with a nice cover and sprayed edges) while enemies to lovers on dragons is a thing.

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1 month ago

I struggle with this both as a reader and a writer. “What is this? Romantic fantasy? Fantasy romance? WHAT DO I WANT?” I know the tropes I want aren’t showing up in romantasy: mutual pining (without enemies to lovers and/or fated mates) wherein allies deepen a relationship, bond over shared experience that maybe aren’t world-shatteringly traumatic, and maybe experience a few false starts and actually have to grow independently as individuals before they can make space for a partner. I love what T. Kingfisher does in the White Rat universe, I think because it feels real in a fantastic place: people meet and engage and fight and grow. The trope cluster you described is fun and exciting and entertaining… But yeah, I also want a glass of plain old milk with my entire chocolate cake to cut through the sweetness. Salt, fat, acid, heat – a balanced dish.

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Julie
14 days ago

I want to know where these tropes originate from! Do you have any recommendations for old lit that would have served as inspiration?