Fifty Shades of Grey opens this weekend, with many audiences worried that the movie will repeat the mistakes of the book in depicting an unrealistic, unhealthy BDSM relationship. But it doesn’t have to be this way—after all, sci-fi and fantasy authors have written believable power exchanges and sexual agency into their books and comics for decades. Instead of headdesking over Christian and Ana once again, pick up these books by Samuel R. Delany, Octavia E. Butler, Matt Fraction, and more.
For Real Sex Ed:
Magic University Series — Cecilia Tan
Tan has long been one of the foremost voices in writing and publishing erotic sci-fi and fantasy. Her work mixes BDSM culture with magic and aliens, as in her short fiction collection Telepaths Don’t Need Safewords.
With her New Adult paranormal romance Magic University series, Tan combines her favorite elements from the Harry Potter books with LGBT characters and eroticism. Her protagonist Kyle Wadsworth, studying at the secret magical university Veritas, learns to harness sex magic to combat sirens and prophecies alike. With Kyle starting out knowing less than Jon Snow, he experiences the kind of in-depth sexual apprenticeship that Anastasia Steele should have learned at the hands of Christian Grey.
For Subs and Doms Who Put Thought into Why They’re Subs and Doms:
Nevèrÿon Series — Samuel R. Delany
A fantasy that takes place a generation after a slave liberation, Tales of Nevèrÿon follows several characters who were once slaves as they work to build a new society, with Delany fearlessly exploring the links between subjugation, freedom, and power. Some of the former slaves now fetishize the collars and chains that were used on them during their captivity, and many young people, who have no memory of enslavement, now act out rituals of domination and submission without fully realizing what they’re ritualizing.
Naturally, this being Delany, there’s one powerful man who is willing to narrate long, sociologically-informative flashbacks to orient the rest of us. But again, it’s Delany, so these flashback are so artfully written and captivating that you never notice how long they are. It’s socially-conscious smut.
For a Heroine with Actual Sexual Agency:
Kushiel’s Dart — Jacqueline Carey
One of the most frustrating aspects of Ana’s character is that she is absolutely not in touch with her own sexuality. Instead of reading about her fretting over not knowing which way to wear her hair would be sexier for Christian, come of age with courtesan/spy Phèdre nó Delaunay: Born into the service of Naamah (a prostitute and goddess revered in her culture), she grows up learning how to have healthy, communicative sex, even watching a “showing” by her fellow adepts when she comes of age.
Of course, Phèdre’s situation isn’t all hearts and roses: Until she makes her marque (that is, completes the terms of her indentured servitude), she is not allowed to choose any of her patrons. But as she works toward earning her freedom, she’s able to mostly do so on her terms, being assigned to patrons who can be the dominants to her submissive and feed her desire for pain. This is no shrinking flower, and she definitely knows her way around her own body.
For a Commentary on the Body and Sex:
Saturn’s Children — Charles Stross
One of the more baffling aspects of Fifty Shades is Christian’s obsession with changing Ana’s body: He wants her to stay nice and slim, yet he’s always shoving food at her. His gifts of lingerie and dresses also shape her into a more feminized figure, when before meeting him she was more content to wear jeans and Converse.
In Saturn’s Children, sexbot Freya has her own body and identity struggles when she finds herself in an impossible new context: Designed to lust after and serve humans, she awakens 300 years after all humans have died out. With no one on whom to pin her desires, and derided by her fellow robots, Freya must forge a new path for herself that doesn’t revolve around a master’s pleasure.
For an Honest Look at Those Cigarette Burns:
Lost Girls — Alan Moore and Melinda Gebbie
On the eve of World War I, Wendy Darling, Alice (now Lady Fairchild), and Dorothy Gale meet at a hotel in Austria and discuss the erotic adventures of their youth. Some of these are quite positive, but others are… less so. All three women find ways to cope with the trauma they’ve been through—better ways than Christian did. What’s more, their emotional arcs are woven into some truly gorgeous porn as Moore and Gebbie celebrate the human urges of creativity and sexuality over the destructive forces sweeping across Europe.
For Subs and Doms Who Put Thought into Why They’re Subs and Doms, Part Deux:
Lilith’s Brood — Octavia E. Butler
Butler’s seminal series pointedly mirrors the experience of slavery and Native American “relocation,” with an alien species, the Oankali playing the role of the “civilizing” forces to the tattered remains of humanity. Human Lilith makes a choice to breed with the Oankali to create a new, hybrid form of life. Sex between human and alien, while entirely for procreative purposes, is also super-hot, as the Oankali tap into humans’ minds, giving them a multi-sensory experience. Oankali come in male, female, and a third sex, ooloi, that can take different forms depending on who they want to seduce.
For a Sexual Awakening That’s Mutually Beneficial:
Sex Criminals — Matt Fraction & Chip Zdarsky
Suzie’s a librarian and Jon’s an actor. They hook up, and discover that they both share the same weird gift: Their orgasms stop time. They’re shocked, naturally, since they each thought they were the only one on Earth with this talent. But now that they’ve found each other, they need to cook up a way to use the time they’re being given. Obviously they should knock over a bank to fund Suzie’s library.
Matt Fraction and Chip Zdarsky have taken a great sci-fi premise and spun it into something with real moral depth, as the two characters have to come to terms with their sexual histories, their feelings for each other, and their passion for larceny.
For a Story That Escalates Quickly:
The Sleeping Beauty Quartet — A.N. Roquelaure
Let’s face it: Some of the appeal of Fifty Shades is how WTF it all gets, from the infamous tampon scene to Christian disarmng a gun-toting an ex-lover by domming her. If you like your erotica to have the highest stakes and to go beyond the limits of your own imagination, check out Anne Rice’s erotic reimagining of Sleeping Beauty.
Beauty is woken from her magical sleep by much more than a kiss, and from there her adventures escalate: She is forced to become the perfect servant, then rebels and is sold into brutal slavery, only to get kidnapped. She’s also not the only sexual object: The series’ male characters are also slaves, and explore the world of pony play. After reading this, you won’t care who’s trying to separate Christian and Ana, because your mind will be stretched to its limits.
Natalie Zutter is ironically seeing Fifty Shades of Grey this weekend and can’t wait to tell you all about it. You can read more of her work on Twitter and elsewhere.
Leah Schnelbach will spend this weekend unironically reading more Samuel Delany. You can find her on Twitter!
Kushiel’s Dart and Lillith’s Brood have been on my “to read” list for ages. I should get to them. Saturn’s Children looks very interesting too.
Sex Criminals is weird but deffinitely at the top of the current crop of, in general very high quality, comic book series.
The (first) Kushiel series was great.
Could not get into “Neveryon” at all. (Was that the book where locks had just been invented, so every lock opened with the same key?)
As for Rice’s Sleeping Beauty series, they are a lot of fun, but not really SFF — they are pure “prawn”.
do not forget :
The Saga of the Skolian Empire by Catherine Asaro
– a family who can only have sex with pain slaves !!!
I think you’re all ignoring the sexiest SFF novel at all: Flatland, a Romance of Many Dimensions. Squares and Line-segments getting freaky. And talk about pushing people past their boundaries, some of these characters get taken right out of their cartesian plane!
Yahtzee’s review of the Anne Rice quartet has me convinced they’re far worse than 50 Shades. I guess listing it under blatant WTFery is appropriate. http://www.fullyramblomatic.com/reviews/beauty.htm
Richard K. Morgan’s Altered Carbon has, in my opinion, some of the steamist sex scenes ever.
And Mark Smlye’s The Barrow is pretty darn smutty.
*Dons flame retardant suit*
No Gor?
*Runs!*
Try Peter Hamilton’s Mis-spent Youth.
Yay Phedre!
IIRC, Anne McCaffrey wrote some SF porn.
And the late Andy Offut wrote some light bdsm fantasy porn in the Thieves World books.
No Philip Jose Farmer?
Having read more of these than I care to admit, I’ll say that the Kushiel’s Dart series is very good.
How about Janet Morris’s High Couch of Silistra from the 70s and its 3 sequels. They were pretty steamy.
I’d like to point out Meljean Brook’s steampunk series Iron Seas.
The quality of the Kushiel series goes up and down like a sine wave. The first trilogy goes from fantastic to mediocre to terrible. The second trilogy goes from bad to good to great. The third trilogy set starts strong and goes downhill quickly after the first book.
Something people reviewing and commenting on Fifty Shades often seem to miss is that E L James fully intended to represent an unhealthy relationship. Weirdly, both pro and anti comments seem to miss this.
At its heart, Fifty Shades is a standard “The love of a good woman heals the closed heart of a damaged man” – only with more kinky sex.
Christian starts the series badly broken emotionally and is more or less healed by the end largely due to the (for him) incredibly rare combination of Ana being willing to (a) truly love him and (b) say ‘no’ to him when he gets out of line. Once he stops automatically getting everything he wants, he comes face to face with his emotional limitations and has to work through them.
Which isn’t to say they’re good books – they’re terribly written and the story is unoriginal (and literally ripped from Twilight). But to criticise them as representing an unhealthy BDSM relationship is silly when that was the entire point of them.
@17, You are the only person I’ve ever heard say that. I’ve seen statements from James herself that completely contradict that.
Good Lord! John Cleve, The Spaceways Series from the 70’s, and Phillip Jose Farmer, The Number of the Beast….These two writers make the ones listed above read like See Spot Run!
Lillith’s Brood is one of my absolute favorites. It’s also a very confusing trilogy because I keep finding it mentioned in lists of “sexy” or “erotic” works, and I found absolutely nothing of the sort, nothing sexy and also nothing disturbing or “unsexy”. Luckily I read those books before I had found any of those lists, because I would have been disappointed when I found no hint of eroticism in the books, and it could have potentially ruined my enjoyment of a wonderful story.
Unless, are there censored versions of those books and I happened to read one of those? Because I swear there is nothing either titillating or sexually disturbing. I mean, there is a wonderful “role reversal” when the human males find themselves scared and confused because of the notion that they are no longer sexually dominant and are instead sexually dominated by the ooloi (purely the human males perception though, but it still creates a very interesting commentary on the role we males imagine ourselves in, and our paranoia about losing that role). The reproductive process of the oankali is also fascinating. But I honestly don’t get why these books keep coming up as “science fiction erotica”.
Kushiel’s Legacy is awesome. I have an unhealthy obsession with Melisande.
Forget about the SFF neurotica listed above. You should read Dead Girls, Dead Boys, Dead Things by Richard Calder. Learn why the Lilim assassin Primavera Bobinski sometimes doesn’t like boys. Learn why the Elohim Dagon, formerly known as Ignatz Zwakh, is a sex criminal.
Strange genitalia indeed …
Piers Anthony: Pornucopia
Seabury Quinn: Alien Flesh
Richard Miller: Snail
lesser known works from before the interweb
The best part of the Kushiel’s Dart and subsequent books is how intricately plotted they are, and quite well written. A fully satisfying experience :)
JAWolf @8: Rats…Beat me to it!!! ; )
As a writer, I want my stories to be worthy of being on a list like this: smart, sex-positive, and informed by what is safe and healthy in the real world even though they take place in a fantasy setting.
Shameless plug: my forray into sexy SFF (Autumn Harvest: Maiden) was just released today.
@18, the third book shows this rather unequivocally, according to those I know who’ve read it. It is its theme. The problem BDSM people should be having with this is that the trilogy read as a whole shows BDSM relationships as illness, and at the end Christian is cured of his need for them.
To further address James alleged attempt to portray an unhealthy relationship, here is a direct quote from James
James says she “freaks out when she hears people say that her book encourages domestic violence. “Nothing freaks me out more than people who say this is about domestic abuse,” she says. “Bringing up my book in this context trivializes the issues, doing women who actually go through it a huge disservice. It also demonizes loads of women who enjoy this lifestyle, and ignores the many, many women who tell me they’ve found the books sexually empowering.”
how about
richard calder: dead girls trilogy, that surely must be the most fetishist thing you can write
philip jose farmer: image of the beast, that’s as pornographic as they get (think Gile de Rais reborn into some anal dildo snake attached to joan of arc’s female bits – I kid you not)
the pleasure tube (can’t remember who wrote it): which is more in the psychedelic arena
talking about psychedelic: richard kadrey’s angel scene, that’s quite gothic death and torture and love and sex
marion zimmer bradley’s books are full of visiting gender roles and love and sex
robert heinlein’s Friday or Stranger in a Strange world are pretty liberal
samjatin’s We and of course Huxley’s Brave New world have sex as a key topic
if you are into short stories, check out the (free) escapepod.org podcast and have a blushing snkeak peak at their x-rated stories:
http://escapepod.org/category/podcasts/rated-x/
and of course, talking podcasts, if you want it alien and strange, check out Octavia Butler’s Bloodchild, read by the most amazing Norm Sherman:
http://www.drabblecast.org/tag/author-octavia-butler/
Not one mention, not one single solitary mention, of the SFF series that should pop right out, word-association style, when someone mentions “SFF BSDM”?
Seriously, nobody’s read any Gor around here?
(Grin, duck, run like heck…)
The people who are arguing that James intended to represent an unhealthy relationship: that’s all well and good, but if you’re portraying an unhealthy relationship then the average reader should be able to tell, right? The mere fact that there are people out there who don’t think the Ana/Christian dynamic is messed up means that it didn’t really work out.
@31: It was George Carlin who said, “You know how dumb the average person is? By the law of averages, that means half the population is even dumber than that!”
@32, which, if you proof it, isn’t mathematically correct. But then the “law of averages” gets broken a lot. What good is a law without enforcement?